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SELF-HELP BOOKS
In his book, ‘Nine
Insights for a Happy and Successful Life,’ Mitchell Gibson provides a self-help guide that consists of nine insights on how a person can change a life of sadness, emotional suffering and unhappiness, to a life
that is filled with happiness, contentment, and fulfillment. He notes that the nine insights for a happy and successful life
were inspired by his personal experiences and insights he acquired treating patients and stored in a journal. Gibson states
in his book that he “hopes to provide a little light in a world in which millions feel isolated, empty, and without
hope.” and “the nine insights come from the Creator and he believes they are His way of reminding each of us that
we are unique and special to Him in ways that we cannot imagine.”
In ‘Nine Insights
for a Happy and Successful Life,’ Gibson addresses such issues as our belief that money is the key to happiness, how
events outside of our control will cause chaos in our lives if we allow it, how
we have a tendency to not recognize the possibilities, and how our thoughts affect our outlook on life. He shows readers the
path to a happy and fulfilled life through an analysis of techniques that focus on channeling positive energy internally and
how to keep positive energy in our environment. This includes adjusting our attitude, how to assess, develop, and exploit
the necessary skills to improve our lives, how our dreams can be a source of
inspiration, and understanding that failure is about applying what we learned to make better decisions in the future. He shows
readers the power of the open mind and how rejecting negative thoughts and accepting positive thoughts are essential to achieving
happiness. A fundamental message of the book is learning to understand how our energies, whether positive or negative, influence
our state of emotional well being.
For those who have
been living in a cycle of negativity that has resulted in sadness, despair, and depression, ‘Nine Insights for a Happy
and Successful Life is a must-read.’ It is presented in a thoughtful, reflective, and organized way so that readers
will be able to gain an understanding about how thoughts affect our well being and that we have the power to gain control
of our thoughts to break free of the unconscious conditioning of always focusing on the negative. The book is very insightful
and readers will learn how develop important skills on how to get in touch with their true inner selves to make important
changes both internally and externally so that they can live a happier and more fulfilled life.
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We are now living
in a society where the divorce rate is beginning to outnumber the marriage rate. This trend has resulted in exploring why
so many people are having problems maintaining a long term relationship. In his book, ‘Ten Statements,
The 10 Success Recipes for Romantic Relationships’ Author, Philosopher, and Motivational
Speaker, JL Shash, presents an analysis of relationships and a self-help guide on how to obtain and maintain a successful
relationship.
In ‘Ten Statements,’
Shash provides 10 statements to relationship success that involves a step-by-step process of understanding the meaning of
relationships that involves identifying and explaining what love is, understanding and defining what one’s needs are,
identifying and explaining what love isn’t, and finally learning what it means to love ourselves first before we can
love another.
Shash provides a
no-nonsense, practical, and logical approach on how we understand relationships. Shash points to the importance of romance,
but identifies how romance can often overshadow the practical elements that go into finding and building a solid relationship.
He debunks many myths about what our expectations are about relationships and clarifies the meaning of love and how it has
been misconstrued, resulting in unrealistic expectations. The goal is to help people make informed decisions regarding their
relationships.
Fundamental themes
include: helping readers engage in self reflection about their expectations, how society puts pressure on us to marry, and
the need to develop such attributes as self-love and self-esteem before we can have a healthy and mutually beneficial relationship.
As Shash states, “We must know who we are and what we stand for.” His moral commentary at the end of each of the
10 statements puts each chapter into a unique philosophical perspective.
Shash’s book
provides clarity in an often confusing topic. Well-written, with a number of witty anecdotes, ‘Ten Statements’
is highly recommended to those seeking a rational and better understanding of relationships.
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In his book, Internal
Vision: A Ten-Day Journey to True Happiness, author Roger Revak, shares a deeply personal story of a devastating time in his
life about a ten-day journey that could have cost him his life. Within the story, the author presents a self-help guide inspired
by his emotional and physical struggle following his brain tumor diagnosis.
In his first forty
years, Roger Revak was a man who struggled through life with no clear purpose. Haunted by the verbal and emotional abuse by
his father, Revak’s adulthood involved struggling with his own internal conflicts, which affected his outlook on life
and his loved ones. He had dug himself into an emotional hole and lived in a cycle of negativity. It was not until his diagnosis
of a brain tumor that he began the journey of emotional and physical healing. It is a personal journey of spiritual growth
and enlightenment.
The book is divided
into 15 chapters with each chapter telling the story of his plight with a brain tumor as well as a series of ‘lessons
unlearned’ and self-help exercises at the end of each chapter. These lessons include: #1.) What does living in the present
mean? #2.) What is fear? (Rational and Irrational Fear) #3.) How do you live in the present? #4.) What’s in it for me (Advantages of living in the present) #5.) What is the downside to living in
the present? #6.) Love your inner child as if he or she were your own. #7.) Forgiving yourself. #8.) Creating Happiness (Directions
to a peaceful life) #9.) Peace #10.) Happiness 101 #11.) Don’t forget to laugh #12.) How can you learn to be present
without having a traumatic experience? 13.) It’s your secret. #14.) Finding your purpose. #15.) Be true to yourself.
The story reveals
how Revak found enlightenment by wading through the past that included his childhood, work, and family, (especially his unconditional
love for his daughter) to gain a positive, spiritual, and rational perspective while unlearning the negativity and tunnel
vision he had acquired. The use of humor and learning to laugh are key elements Revak highlights as important tools to spiritual
healing
As Revak points
out, “the ‘lessons unlearned’ do not require going through a traumatic experience.” They are principles
that can be used by anyone in effort to look at things in a more open way by implementing techniques to acquire self-love,
self-respect, and to achieve happiness and maintain it. The author shows us that we can make it through any difficult situation
that life throws our way.
‘Internal
Vision: A Ten-Day Journey to True Happiness’ is an easy to read and profoundly personal story with a message of love,
strength, and hope, that will help guide readers to achieve spiritual happiness and contentment.
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In his book, ‘A
Complete Guide to Public Speaking,’ author, Joseph A. Grippo, presents a step-by step guide on preparing a public presentation
in an a effective and professional manner using audio and visual aids. When one plans an event with the purpose of delivering
important information intended to inspire creative thought and motivate the audience, a speaker becomes a critical tool to
the event’s success. The speaker will stimulate people to look at situations in a new way and bring innovative ideas
into the organization. The purpose of Grippo’s book, as he states, is to teach people that “public speaking is
an art that can be learned.”
Grippo presents
12 sections that include: I) The Purpose of Information, II) Factors to consider beforehand, (Why one speaks and what you
should know about the speaking occasion) III) Research on message retention, (How to hold the audience’s attention)
IV) Selecting the topic and organizing the presentation, V) Developing the body of the speech, VI) Developing the introduction
and using closing techniques, VII) Rehearsing the presentation, IX) Taking the terror out of making a presentation (Overcoming
fear of giving a presentation.) X) The pros and cons of visual presentations. XI
General speaking tips for effective presentation and XII) Final Remarks (Positive Reinforcement.)
Within the guide,
Grippo manages to filter out any unnecessary information and focus on the “nuts and bolts” of becoming a successful
public speaker. It is a comprehensive and easy to follow and understand booklet
that touches on all aspects of public speaking. Common mistakes and concerns are highlighted with effective advice on overcoming
any hindrances to a successful public speaking event. He provides an account of what makes a good public speaker and how one
can achieve that status.
Part of overcoming
the fear of public speaking is implementing Grippo’s guide and following through. I think the section on Overcoming
Fear may be better suited at the beginning of the book, near the introduction, to demonstrate that the following sections
will not only teach the mechanics and craft of public speaking, but also overcoming one’s fears by boosting self-confidence.
‘A Complete
Guide To Public Speaking’ is highly recommended to those embarking on a career as a Public Speaker and those who want
to maintain and improve their current public speaking skills. It would be particularly useful for those wishing to make business
and technical presentations.
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We live in a society where there is a belief that to be happy one
must achieve career and material success. In his book, The Big Lie, author Stan Sanderson asserts that "the problem is that
it doesn't work. It never has, and it never will. And the reason that it doesn't work is that happiness is not the by-product
of the acquisition of anything. We already have it! Our Creator endowed us with perfect joy, happiness, and freedom in the
beginning, which we have somehow forgotten."
In The Big Lie, Sanderson introduces readers to the Spiritual Coach Program,
which teaches that true happiness can only be experienced through discovering who you really are, and developing a personal
relationship with the God of your understanding.
Using universal spiritual themes rather that religious doctrine or
theory, Sanderson outlines and explains his seven concepts and seven strategies that integrate material success with spiritual
awareness. Concepts include: acknowledging the Big Lie and debunking it; embracing the God Thing in ones life; benefits of
the Power Shift; recognizing undesirable behavior patterns through the Renovation Process; finding forgiveness in the Release
Factor; and discovering the joy of living the 200 Percent Life (100 percent material and a 100 percent spiritual).
Sanderson
explains how the seven strategies are used to help personalize the concepts. Strategies include: knowing yourself; defining
your God; delegating authority, taking personal inventory; implementing forgiveness; techniques for prayer and meditation;
and developing inner-peace and the knowing-feeling of security.
In a lifetime of spiritual study that includes transcendental
meditation with Maharishi Mahesh Yogi, and the continued practice of A Course in Miracles, Sanderson clearly and successfully
presents a step-by-step spiritual guide to discovering sustainable joy, happiness, and freedom in each and every moment of
each and every day. The Spiritual Coach Program provides a number applications and concepts that one can implement on their
spiritual journey. It is an easy to understand program that all readers will find enlightening and motivating. As well, Sanderson
invites readers to continue and enhance their spiritual journey by registering at thespiritualcoach.net to receive his free
Coach's Weekly Message by email.
For readers who are at a crossroads in life, or are searching for true happiness,
The Big Lie is a must have. In a world where embracing religious doctrine is seen by many as having moved away from the spiritual
to the political and militant, The Big Lie will bring readers back to their spiritual roots and as Sanderson states: "allow
them to live as God intended in the beginning." It is highly recommended to readers of all faiths and backgrounds.
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In his novel, ReBecoming,
The Way of Opportunity, author J.R. Maxon delivers a spiritual and philosophical self-help guide in the form of a fictional
story.
Diana Archer is
a young woman living in Tampa, Florida who discovers that she is at a defining moment in life. She begins to question events in her life,
both past and present, to understand why she is feeling a loss of identity. She attends a Gym and meets Fitness Instructor,
Jon, who becomes not only a personal fitness instructor, but a spiritual and philosophical guide. For Diana, life becomes
a series of difficult challenges as she faces a number of threats. Jon provides her with unique insight into analyzing and
understanding her thought processes as it relates to her physical well being, how she perceives the world and her own circumstances,
as well as understanding her own sense of self. Within the chapters that focus on the body, mind, and spirit, Diana learns
what it means to achieve a sense of wholeness. Peppered throughout the book are many spiritual, philosophical, and inspirational
quotes to help one grow spiritually and emotionally:
“The key to
freedom is to shift your awareness away from the Mundane Mind and into the Open Sky Mind and to see your thoughts only as
clouds passing through it.”
With a goal of learning
what it means to be happy, a number of themes are presented that include: an understanding of compassion, kindness, love,
self-confidence, negative thoughts, physical appearance, relationships, finding courage, love, and self-love. One main theme
throughout the story is the concept of physical fitness being tied to psychological and spiritual fitness.
For the most part,
the author successfully creates a Protagonist that women can relate to. Because the novel is integrated with a self-help guide,
readers may want to keep a pen and paper handy in order to note the many self-help techniques presented within the story.
At the end of the book, the author provides a summary of self-help passages. It may have been helpful to deliver them in the
form of a mini self-help program.
Diana’s journey
of breaking free of a cycle of negativity is one that readers will enjoy. ReBecoming: The Way of Opportunity is highly recommended
to readers who enjoy books about overcoming one’s internal demons to gain an understanding of what it really means to
be happy.
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In his book, “Just
Snap Your Fingers and…Bingo You’re Sober,” author Maurice Murray provides recovering alcoholics with an
extensive guide to overcoming alcoholism by tapping into their thought processes and spirituality.
At the age of sixty
eight, Murray, a recovering alcoholic, demonstrates that it is never too late to start the healing process. His workbook is
arranged in five chapters: Recovery Your Way (how alcohol works on the mind, accepting responsibility, and understanding the
meaning of love as it applies to objects, people, and God,) God Fixes Cracked Pots (relationships between the thought process
and attitude,) The Chair’s Fixed, Relax and Sit in It (self-realization, self awareness, one’s personal relationship
with God,) Swat That Bee on Your Recovery Doorknob (how feelings are connected to our thought processes and behavior, learning
to listen, feel, and visualize to achieve a new emotional balance,) and Bingo You’re Sober (self hypnosis as a tool
for instilling spiritual and mental recovery skills.)
The book is peppered
with spiritual and philosophical anecdotes intended to provide positive reinforcement and hope. Murray draws on a lifetime of experience to present relevant stories in the form of thoughtful and sometimes
comical anecdotes meant to inspire recovering alcoholics to stay on the healing path.
The main message
of the book is that alcoholism is a disease that can be defeated. Part of recovery entails understanding how your thought
processes work, changing them, and recognizing the power spirituality plays in the recovery process. One essential message
Murray
imparts: Your life isn’t hopeless. It is your negative thoughts that have led you to believe it is hopeless. By identifying
and changing your feelings, your thoughts will respond positively. As Murray states, “Recovery requires conscious and continuous
positive actions.”
With many exercises
and assignments, readers will be able to implement the principles as they read. The many spiritual references are more philosophical
and positive in nature, rather than in a preaching format. It would have been
helpful to have more information in the chapter on self hypnosis, particularly for those who are new to the field.
Written from a heartfelt
struggle with alcoholism, Murray candidly shares his wisdom on recovering from the disease. I highly recommend Bingo You’re
Sober to those seeking clarity, the resolve to recover, and finding peace during a difficult period of one’s life.
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In his book, Questions
for a Full Life, author Frank Briganti addresses the psychological and spiritual aspects of how people can find peace, unity,
and internal harmony. Briganti presents an in depth discussion about how to achieve a full human life. Understanding the mystery
of God is a key element needed to reach fulfillment. He states, “This book is about discovering and realizing the possibilities
for growth, commitment, completion, happiness, and even ecstasy found in the union of the body and mind.”
Briganti explains
five important sections to achieving a complete and harmonious life. Fresh Horizons explores what is meant by living a full
human life. The Keys path focuses on understanding the mind through imagination, desires, and self awareness. Inner Realities
explores our selves through a better understanding of how our mind works. Pathways provide the tools required for achieving
a full life. Final Horizon focuses on the future and how to create a future that is meaningful and happy. Each chapter within the section is filled with spiritual and psychological wisdom that help readers connect
to themselves. Briganti imparts some important messages: We don’t have to be restrained by negative thoughts and emotions.
Inner life and growth leads to external growth and happiness. We cannot connect to others until we connect to ourselves.
A noteworthy point
of the book is Briganti’s explanation of how to harness our thoughts through the use of imagination and understanding
our mindsets. By understanding how we question ourselves and the world around us, we are better able to reflect on the many
paths to achieving a full life. The key is to find the right path for you.
Questions for a
Full Life is designed to stimulate our senses, question our current state of being, and offer ways of achieving clarity. The
structure of the book is designed to help the reader look inwardly, question, and find creative solutions. Because the book
is packed with so much information, it would have been beneficial to end each chapter with a summary to help the reader develop
a self reflection program. As well, it would have been helpful to see a daily work guide that one could use to implement the
many principles presented in the book.
Whether you are
dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, or trying to figure out where you fit into the world, Questions for a Full Life
is a helpful companion to any healing process or self-reflection plan. It will help you connect to your self and the world
around you.
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Jill Maschio’s book, When Your Mind is Clear,
the Sun Shines All the Time: A Guidebook for Overcoming Depression takes readers on a personal journey into the murky waters
of depression. Written by a survivor afflicted with deep depression for many years, the author shares a candid story about
her personal battle with depression. She shows how she came to understand it, face it, and overcome it.
Maschio explains that the key to overcoming depression
is “critical thinking.” She demonstrates that critical thinking involves taking the time to challenge your feelings
and thoughts instead of reacting to them. The author delivers key tools to becoming a successful critical thinker allowing
one to develop positive decision-making abilities. By analyzing your thought processes during difficult times and recognizing
flawed thinking that can lead to misinterpreting events, she shares how you can head off the path to depression. Readers learn
to challenge many influences, internal and external, and develop the ability to question their validity by looking at them
from other points of view before jumping to conclusions.
Rationalizing plays a key role in critical thinking.
Maschio provides exercises gathered from various authors with experience on a variety subjects in the book including her own
self-help exercises. Teaching readers how to assess a situation, the author offers ways to look at things differently thereby
engaging in positive decision-making. Readers learn how to recognize when decision-making is the result of an emotional response,
which is a fundamental tool to becoming a critical thinker. Various techniques that include relaxation, active listening,
the benefits of forgiving others and ourselves, as well as using “Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs,” help to
gain insight into overcoming depression.
With constant reflections of her own inner struggle
throughout the book, Maschio shows readers how to apply critical thinking to constant negative thoughts. She delivers an understanding
of self-esteem, a logical look where self-esteem originates, the effects of low self-esteem, and how to master the art of
raising it by employing critical thinking.
Jill Maschio’s guide to overcoming depression
stands out from many self-help books because it is told from the perspective of a survivor. It delivers hope to those believing
life is hopeless. With over 57 million people in the US suffering from depression, the author
demonstrates that we all have it in us to “walk through fear” to break free from the constant cycle of negative
thoughts and achieve self-discovery.
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The Little Book About Big Success is a brilliant handbook designed to help individuals reach success. By analyzing ourselves,
which includes a thoughtful look at our past, present, and future, author Charles Holmes challenges readers with the thought
provoking question, "Are you really happy?"
The reader is taken on a journey of self exploration. Along the voyage,
certain steps are revealed that are key to achieving happiness. The author takes a stand against what we have been taught
since childhood regarding what it means to be successful. That deep-rooted message: Happiness means acquiring extreme wealth
and surrounding ourselves with superficial goods.
The author takes us on a different path to success, one that leads
to true happiness of the self, or in other words, the spirit. A success goal that emphasizes faith and family is as much a
necessity to happiness as acquiring wealth. The author asks the reader, "Are you ready to sacrifice your faith and family
for success? Can you?" We are asked to look around at our family, loved ones, and faith, and ponder the question, "If I was
rich beyond my dreams, and they were not with me, would I truly be happy?"
We are not told how to live, but how to
live well, which in turn leads to success. When reading the book, readers find themselves looking inwardly at their dreams
and goals which become defined and distinguished. The reader is taken on an exploration to discover how to be happy, both
internally and externally, without losing what one holds most dear - family and faith in a higher power.
What makes
the book so distinctive and appealing is how the author emphasizes a sense of self worth entwined with family, faith, and
relationships with others, which must be put into perspective before achieving financial success. Charles invites the reader,
after self examination, to use his ten important success principles and twelve qualities of successful people. Not only are
these tools essential to be successful in business, but essential for what life throws at us.
What makes this book
unique and engaging is how it shakes off the stereotypes of what it means to be successful. We all have the courage within
us to be successful once we unlearn what society has taught us. The author teaches us that family, faith, and community spirit,
are important keys to becoming successful, and as a result, happy.
The book is inspirational because it teaches us
that success may not be what has been taught to us: "Only extreme wealth will make us happy and fulfilled." We are asked,
"Are you prepared to give up family, faith, and community spirit to be successful?" If so, will you be happy? The author teaches
us that "yes," to be successful, there will be sacrifices, but it does not have to be those we hold most dear.
I highly
recommend this book to those interested in achieving financial, spiritual and personal success.
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Bald as a Bean: The Experience of Sudden Hair Loss is at the top of my must read list. The author, Nancy Parsons, draws
the reader into a world turned upside down when she is diagnosed with the disease, alopecia areata totalis universalis. (total
hair loss over the entire body)
Nancy shares her intensive and sometimes agonizing physical and spiritual struggle
when faced with this disease. From the initial shock of finding large clumps of hair on the shower floor, to the overwhelming
diagnosis, Nancy chronicles the medical and holistic treatments, as well as the emotional and physical obstacles that she
fights to overcome.
By revealing her most intimate thoughts, Nancy eloquently affirms the statement, "Although alopecia
areata is not life threatening, it is most certainly life altering." We become aware of how much society values hair, and
when one loses it, the emotional loss is as significant as the physical loss.
One notable theme throughout the book
is that of our natural world, particularly the change of seasons. Loss and rebirth in nature entwines itself with Nancy's
physical and spiritual being, and with that comes inspirational hope. How others react to Nancy's hair loss shapes her internal
struggle. Not only do her present interactions with others affect her, but her childhood experiences with her hair are discussed.
Through comical reflections we see how the importance of hair is instilled in all of us at a very young age. Nancy's humor
is an important defense against this disease. We see this humor when she talks about her wigs affectionately known as "the
girls."
A disturbing statistic about alopecia areata is revealed. One study indicated that "forty eight percent of
alopecians had considered suicide." By sharing such a personal struggle, Nancy shows us that through perseverance and self
reflection, one can find the strength to live with the disease. The journey of shock, denial, fear, anger, and depression,
is a journey worth taking.
Not only do I recommend Bald as a Bean, The Experience of Sudden Hair Loss to those suffering
from alopecia or hair loss due to a treatment such as chemotherapy, but as well, to those who enjoy reading true stories about
the triumph of the human spirit.
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